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Where x represents new submissive slaves coming under my control year over year , added to n which is the total number of loyal slaves who repeatedly visit me on an accumulative basis year over year … all multiplied by the number of years I’ve been a Mistress , which you believe right now to be about 8. How did you know that you wanted to turn your Mercy Mistress memoir into a series that people could actually see?
Enter Yin Q (real name: Yin Quan), a New York-based professional dominatrix, educator, human rights activist and writer, whose new show, a BDSM comedic drama entitled Mercy Mistress, aims to shatter all of the above dehumanizing images and destigmatize kink by showcasing the sexuality of queer Asian-Americans in a truthful, sexy, nuanced, and humorous light. However therapeutic kink can be for clients, the dominatrixes clarified that BDSM cannot be a replacement for psychotherapy. And while some therapists tend to pathologize kinkiness, “there’s a big change too in therapy, where they are integrating the fact that BDSM and kink are part of people’s sexuality, and it’s not [all] coming from this place of trauma,” Lucy says. I believe that sessions are more enjoyable if they are tailored to the individual. I know what I like, do you? It is no good coming to Me and saying that you want to try strap-on training if you know you hate anal play! So if it is your first session with Me I shall sit you down and discuss what will happen during our time together. Then after the session I will ask you what you enjoyed and what you want from the next session. After all, these sessions are meant to be fun for both of us!DO NOT be fooled by my beauty or innocent demeanour. I am an alpha. Confident with a natural desire to dominate and control. I am an experienced Mistress with over 8 years as a ProDomme. Royal Holloway educated - an intellectual who enjoys exploring and engaging in BDSM, Psychology, Fetishes, Fantasies and submission. Giving is important. This is one of the mantras you should always follow. Give in. Give up. Give over. Giving a part of you is the best way to serve your Mistress Kim. Giving all of you, is why you need training. The act of giving, shows your dedication, your servitude. The more you give, the more I know you are thinking of Me. The more you serve, the more you will realize… this is the reason for your existence. To live, in service. Beneath me. Make this your raison d’etre. Growing up in San Francisco, Cho attended the Folsom Street Fair, a massive event celebratingthe queer BDSM and leather communities. “My experience of the leather community really comes from queer kink,” she said. “I used to work at this company called Stormy Leather in the 90s making leather dildos, I mean just incredibly grassroots, like actually making sex toys and selling them, so this world to me has really come alive in this series.”
So every year my base of loyal submissive men was accumulating what felt like exponentially. I didn’t “have” to ever write a story here on jaa4u if I didn’t want to , the business model would have propagated by itself naturally. People tend to try to cross the line with sex workers,” Lucy says. “Most people won’t push with me, because they come into it not only knowing my reputation but just maybe this energy that I give off.” The first thing she asks new clients is if they are nervous, and Lucy says they usually answer, “I’m scared of you.” Lucy laughs. “That’s a good emotion to have towards me.” Projects like these are so revolutionary for how they de-stigmatize marginal perspectives and communities by showing a fuller truth. How do you feel that Mercy Mistress can help discussions about BDSM sexuality move beyond potential stigmas or even ideas of criminality? Mistress Wael is available from 1pm until 10pm every day, while I am available at either 7pm or 10pm Monday – Thursday and 4pm on Friday’s. That said each cane has it’s own individual characteristics as learned quite clearly in a past session with professional submissive Hannah Elliot and an adult schoolboy I have been caning for many years.In my practice – the *purpose* of CP is very different between these two classic archetypes – as Headmistress the administration of punishment is specifically for the benefit of the “naughty boy”– the cane may sting but I am confident that it will greatly benefit the recipient in terms of improved behaviour, demeanour and results. As a Disciplinarian I have a very specific array of traditional implements. Obviously my bare hand for an Over The Knee spanking comes first – but the other implements that I use include leather school straps, the infamous Lochgelly tawse, woooden hairbrushes (though this is more common as Aunty than Headmistress) and most of all the cane. Lucy’s mother thinks she owns her own fashion consulting company, though her sister knows her real career. She assumes the secret will come out eventually. With Mistress Wael sessions are outcalls at your hotel, house or condo and with me they are held here at my condo. I’m not here to give a world economics presentation , you guys are far more intelligent at world affairs than I am. But I am aware of certain things which are changing the world dynamic as we head into the latter half of 2022.
In March the storm clouds began to lift. It was like people were emerging from their caves finally , able to see the stars once again. As a Disciplinarian while I always believe in making the punishment fit the crime, I have developed a slight preference for the swishier, stingier canes and am always on the lookout for new examples to add to my Armoire Armoury! They can be a little more difficult to source, particularly at a full length however I recently sourced some wonderful examples from Quality Control including one of their rare and beautiful Smoked Dragon canes. I was just watching another video on Asian-American male masculinity. The male actor who plays Mistress Yin's love interest in the show is just so amazing as an actor, and in who he is as an activist. And a conversation that I had with him behind the scenes was about how so many hetero actors are being applauded to play gay scenes, whereas a famous gay actor had never been applauded for playing a straight scene. So having an Asian-American gay actor play a straight male who is wrestling with their shame, that's something behind-the-scenes that I would just like to see. But by upholding Asian-American masculinity in a loving way, like here is this guy who is a hip guy but in the end, he gets the girl. I feel like Asian-American men are either a tech-guy, the nerd, the guy that can get rid of your coding problem, but can't get a date. So not only upholding the woman, the femme, and their sexuality, but I want to uphold the men and their masculinity, because there are so many different shades of masculinity that can be sexy and not toxic. I not only want to build a better world for the girls but for the boys that they hang with. In BDSM culture, a lifestyle slave is a person who takes on the submissive role in a total power exchange (TPE) relationship. “I’ve always been kinky, but in my teens and in college, I would try to suppress those feelings and desires that were burning in me,” he says. “Seeing a pro domme not only let me explore this side in a non-judgmental environment, but also with someone who knew what they were doing.”
The family trauma that Yin experienced in their childhood led them to seek out BDSM as a lifestyle. “I came into sexual awakening with the need to struggle, the need to feel like I’m pushing up against power,” Yin says. “That I’m playing different roles.” They went through phases of self-harm in their early teenage years. “I’m very much a sadomasochist,” Yin says.
I’m going to share with you some of my thoughts on what I do , our business model , and how things feel so tenuous , and what I’m doing to try and prevent a 2nd covid like period of desolation that may be on the horizon. Fire Island’ First Look: Joel Kim Booster and Bowen Yang Star in a Jane Austen-Inspired Gay Rom-Com The biggest misconception in what we do,” Lucy says, “is how actually caring [the work] is. People think it’s so mean and negative and hard and dark and cruel, and people are just getting beat.” But that isn’t what it is, she says. “It’s quite loving in many ways.”
I’m too young to know what a prolonged recession feels like , what comes with it. But I feel it is something I must prepare for. This story was originally published in issue 4 of Banana Magazine, an annual print publication dedicated to contemporary Asian culture. Secondly, my customer base has begun to shift from Europeans to Americans and that’s the first time such a paradigm shift has happened in the past ten years. Writing from the top of my head isn’t always a great idea , I have at any given time so many thoughts dancing around my head with regards to my business, femdom , customer’s behaviors and so on.
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