SISSY FOR MY WIFE: (Crossdressing, Feminization, First Time)

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My wife was not convinced by anything I told her, and is really worried that I am going to want to pursue more than just crossdressing. The two of you may set boundaries, you may establish “ground rules”, you may adopt a “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” agreement.

And when I did, it was an enormous relief, like a ton of bricks was lifted from me — Imagine the rush of pleasant chemicals that released in my brain.Your man MIGHT (and again not all crossdressers feel this way) want to be sexually treated like a woman when he is wearing lingerie or dressed from wig to heels. The meanings imbued on the clothes we wear, how we groom or wear our hair are signifiers of an association with a particular lived experience. Then Jessica comes home and catches him dressed in gorgeous, intricate women's lingerie, staring at his muscular physique in the bedroom mirror. I wish I could choose to present as a woman one day, then present as male the next and pass as either — but that is a fantasy.

When her girlfriends came over she would playfully tell her friends that I was the little sister she never had. Many couples will set boundaries and that step will take a lot of work and communication, especially from your husband. When I came out to my first wife, it was because she had a kink about men in fishnets and heels that she shared with me and asked if I’d do it for her – What a boon (I thought)!For others, we want to wear something BECAUSE it’s “for girls” but this is more typical of men who crossdress as a kink, but this isn’t always the case. I put on a lovely pair of black lingerie and then put on a black dress, pantyhose and heels along with a nice shoulder length hair wig. If this side of your man, or any part of him or your relationship makes you unhappy, angry, turned off, or anything else, then you are under no obligation to “let” him crossdress.

We have a side of us that makes us ridiculously happy but are fully aware of how difficult this part of us is for someone else to understand and accept. Thank you for your candor and for adding such fine commentary to the concept of the relationships that exist between a loving heterosexual CD and the woman that loves him. And accepting that your husband crossdresses is essentially knowing that this side of him isn’t going away. Those qualities in others for which we either feel attraction or aversion are neither good nor bad, they just are.

I was still nervous if she would suspect something but with a smile I opened the door and welcomed her.