Mom loses her shit journal: Mom loses her shit journal

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I can’t take care of three kids, work from home, take care of the house, and keep any kind of sanity. Obviously when a parent loses their job, they’re the one who has to cope. It’s not, as it always has been, about you this time, so you’re going to have to step up and be an adult for once, all right?

Remember when mom lost her shit that time you spilled your milkshake all over the couch?!” your adult children may someday lament with a giggle, remembering the incident well, and thank god they think it’s funny now, because it wasn’t funny then. At least, it wasn’t funny for you. Got to say, the only person who was absolutely great/supportive was my ex/the father of my DC, who kind of knew from our long chats over the years about our families, just why I felt so unbearably sad.If you ask any mum what they actually want for Mother’s Day, they’re likely to say a lie in, or a bit of peace and quiet. Unfortunately, this Mother’s Day we are all being given the wonderful gift of an hour less in bed, which is just peachy isn’t it.

Mother’s Day is on Sunday 27th March 2022. If you’re looking for something lovely to buy your mum (or, if you’re a dad and your kids are small, to buy for their mum) you’re cutting it a bit fine, but never fear; here are some lovely Fran-chosen-and-approved ideas for Mother’s Day presents. A spa day I called my boss that evening and asked her for a week off so that I could properly do my most vital job, be a Mom. I used to say I love you very much but I am not happy with your behaviour, it is not acceptable and I am not doing x,y,z with you until you can behave better. I did not expect to be the mother I am. I just thought that Sophia would slot into my life and I would carry on as normal. I thought I would have a nanny, but the moment she was born the nurses said: “Should we take her up to the nursery so you can have a rest tonight?” and I said: “What? No, are you mad? Get away from my child!” Everything changed. When I held her, something shifted inside me.

I find emotional processing really hard, so it was a massive step for me to even be able to feel that sadness and recognise it as such. Similar to above but I irrationally am a bit pissed off because when her dog died, I was supportive because I knew how devastated she was. But nothing though she knows my mum was in hospice, and then texted me about something else, I didn't reply When she hits the dog she needs to know that it is not acceptable. I would make a consequence specific to something she really likes. Hit the dog = your favourite thing gets taken away/ doesn't happen. A toxic relationship is typically a two-way street. But in a mother-child relationship, the parent does wield the bulk of the emotional responsibility — hence why there are a lot more toxic moms than toxic daughters. It’s not always clear when a parent is crossing a line, but experts agree that signs your mom is toxic can be found in the way she speaks to you. I've always just tried to say to friends that I'm here - even if it's just to hold space for them - and I hope they know I mean it.

She hates my edad and always likens me to him, she told me to stop treating her like shit like my edad does (he doesn’t at all). She screamed about her problems with my dad and said I’m doing that to her and I’m making her mental. I said I don’t know what I’ve done wrong? I simply answered her question. She threw her dinner in the bin and I said don’t throw it out I cooked that she said “what have i not ever cooked for u since u were a baby?”...She screamed, hit herself and ran to her room. My sister and I weren’t exactly princesses to my dad [Bernie Ecclestone, businessman and former chief executive of Formula One], but he was soft. If my mum was screaming about something, we would always look to Dad to calm her down. Whenever I have needed him – any bad breakup, any advice, anything – he has always been there. A lot of people think of him as completely emotionless, but he’s not like that. Especially if they’re alone. But even if they’ve got a great relationship with your other parent/loads of mates, it’s important to ring them three times more than you would normally. Because they might want to rant, they might want to talk it through, and they probably feel incredibly shit so having the human they birthed chatting to them will automatically make them feel better.I have a very loving marriage thankfully, so I'm not alone. But in terms of friends I feel quite discarded, but wonder if it's just me being over sensitive due to my head being messed up with the bereavement?

I was 23 or 24 when my parents divorced and it was awful. I think the older you are, the worse it is, because you have had all those Christmases and birthdays together and all those amazing memories. Maybe the younger you are, the more oblivious you are and you just get used to how things are. Suddenly, I felt so guilty about who I should see for Christmas. I felt totally torn. My 'best friend' is the exception to this, I feel I could ring her whenever I need to. We speak every few weeks and it's great. But the fact that all my other friends seem to have discarded me a bit is making it hard to connect with anyone tbh. I feel embarrassed, like nobody wants me around/ can be bothered with me. But, despite your best effort to squash it, your blood boils over, and you just can’t take it anymore. You’ve rolled into a full-blown mommy tantrum, and there’s nothing you can do to tap the brakes. Youngest (6) will generally carry on for ten mins but then goes to sleep. Fine. Eldest however simply refuses to go to sleep. Tonight my husband was out and she was still wandering the floors gone midnight. I constantly returned her to bed. She has lost her Switch privileges for tomorrow. Nothing worrying or upsetting her, by the way. I have asked and asked. She just gets bored in her bed and doesn’t want to go to sleep.Another lovely gift and one I’ve tried out myself, the Afternoon Tea for two voucher from Buyagift can be used at locations all across the country. Friend who got in touch when mum was in hospice, said "I'm so sorry, that's awful" and then nothing more - whatever, they were more a light hearted friendship anyway