Bare Bottom Spankings: My Husband Spanked Me

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I used to be quite defiant, and the spankings have really helped. HOH and I decided that I'm a woman that needs to be spanked *everyday*. So, I get a "maintenance" or "submissive" spanking every day. So…I’ve been asked a variety of questions around the topic of getting domestic discipline spankings and so thought I’d respond to them all here. After messing up and acting stupidly or procrastinating too much etc. we were having a serious discussion almost verging on an argument. My wife said I was acting very immaturely and irresponsibly adding "Maybe a spanking for real will get your attention." One thing lead to another and she was moving forward with her idea. I got a real spanking that hurt enough to have me apologize sincerely and begin doing immediately what I'd promised her for months. Yesterday my wife got the worst spanking in our married life, and that is five years now. She had been toa lunch with some lady friends and drove her car home, but unfortunately for her I was home and could tell she should have phoned me or a taxi instead. After a short while she confessed and admitted that she deserved a spanking. I used her own hairbrush on her bare bottom and I did it long and hard. She soon began crying and begging to be let off, but I continued spanking her until her bottom was crimson red and she was sobbing quietly over my knees. Afterwards we cuddled and I kissed her tears away and told her that loved her so much and would not risk losing her because of drinking and driving, and she promised never to do it again, and soon we were kissing and cuddling and having fantastic ** in the late afternoon. She was even more feminine and tender tah usual and I was very strong and masculine. There is something about spanking a woman's bare My soul echos the same words as Sr. Luke. I believe, affirm, and promote complete obedience to my Husband and to other rightful authorities God has seen fit to place in my life. Yet, time and time again, I fail.

After years of knowing that she has this need, your wife/girlfriend/lover finally told you she wants to be spanked. I am guessing that at best you were surprised especially if you have been together twenty years or more. You may think it’s a passing whim. You may think it is just a random fantasy that has run through her mind; something best left as a fantasy not something she would like in real life. Plus you love this woman and you have no desire to hurt her. When we are having company, I do both of the punishments you describe: Several days beforehand, so I know that everything on his honey-do list will be done, and also right before their arrival, so he will behave himself in his interactions with them. My husband has very different political views than my relatives, for instance, and he definitely needs a reminder to bite his tongue when one of my brothers makes a comment. I don’t want him like a puppy when they are here; I want him to be a topnotch host who is engaged with his guests and serving their needs, whether it’s bringing them a drink, or setting up some game so the kids are out of our hair, or joining in conversation with RESPECT. If you do not like what you see here, I am sorry - and you are certainly free to go. If you have an axe to grind with LDD, create your own blog and let the world know. Spamming this or any similar blog does you no good. It wastes your time and ours.I am not married but my girlfriend has spanked me many times. The first time was with her hand after I had annoyed her. We found that it turns us both on, so we bought a paddle. After a good paddling I can't sit down for the next few hours. It certainly makes me respect her. I seem to fail in charity, humility, and obedience. Pride is not being burned out of me. When I succeed in obeying the Rule, I fail at the same time because I have pride in succeeding." (Sister Luke, "The Nun's Story) I could really use your insight on the concept of maintenance spanking. In the last week or so, my husband has wanted to explore having a female-led relationship. So while he has always done the cooking, and is a great co-parent two our two children, he's now taking on the majority of the rest of the housework. I'm all in favor of this, as he hasn't always done half of the housework, and our new arrangement has allowed me to be a more present parent and pursue more creative pursuits. In addition to parenting, I am now managing our finances, which I don't mind doing. He has recently wanted to try " maintenance spanking" as a way to reinforce his submission. We've done spanking as a part of sex for awhile, both with my hand and with a flogger, and we enjoy other Dom/sub activities like pegging. But I honestly don't "get" the spanking thing apart from sex. When should it happen? When is it supposed to end? Why are we doing this? We tried last night and decided on a certain number of lashes. He asked afterward if I felt powerful and the answer was NO. I didn't get anything from this and I don't understand it. The whole thing felt very ceremonial and I am not sure what to do with that level of formality. Anything I can do to get in this headspace? Am I thinking about this wrong?

However, even if he does not choose to do this, please still surrender in your heart to him... let is be your labour of love to him for the sake of God. God, who will see what is done in secret, will reward you someday in Heaven.

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Next it was my turn. She went over to pull down his underpants. He kept saying no, please no. Down they came. His bottom was like a traffic light. Then I spanked his bare, red rear end.

Please pray for me, that I might be given the grace and fortitude to become the submissive, proper woman and wife that God Almighty desires for me to be. I can do nothing apart from His love and life within me. I was married five years ago, at the age of sixteen. My husband is very tender and loving and manages so that I not do the slightest work; but ever since the first moment of our marriage I have been compelled to obey him absolutely, though he is just a boy. One month after we were married he spanked me thoroughly because I returned five minutes after the time he had set for my return from a shopping expedition. He has punished me in this way for the slighest disobedience ever since. On one occcasion he made me kneel on the floor. Last week I remonstrated with him and begged him to treat me as a woman. He hushed me with kisses, but warned me never to touch upon the subject again, and I am afraid to. I cannot go on in this way and as a last resort, I ask the advise of of your readers. I have no parents and have absolutely no one to whom I can appeal. Initially it was me that asked to be spanked by my wife. After probably 6-7 times she started instigating the punishment. That was around 15 years ago. She’s told me she thinks I behave better and am much more attentive to her needs since all this began. I suppose that’s true. She says she feels empowered. I tend to be impulsive and easily get overexcited and then, when I get carried away by the high spirit of the moment, forget the time, forget chores and other things I should do and also sometimes forget my manners and be mouthy and disrespectful. It is a kind of childishness I will never grow out of so I need a firm guiding hand and those usually 12 to 15 butt blistering spankings in a year to keep me reasonably well in line. I have a journal that my HOH expects me to write in everyday. I'm to put all of my feelings in it, if I've done something I'm not supposed to do, whatever is going on inside of me.Remember that every day, in every situation, you have the choice to obey or not to obey, to honour or not to honour. Choosing the latter will only keep your situation as it already is, or possibly even make it worse. The former choice, on the other hand, has the possibility of being the salvation of your relationship. However, irregardless circumstance, irregardless of feelings, we must remember that it is our job as Christian wives to obey and obey, and then obey some more. Over the next several months she spanked my regularly. The spankings were something I tried to avoid as they invariably left marks and made it uncomfortable to sit for a day or two. Getting turned on by your partner doesn’t have to include getting tied to the bedpost and teased for hours (though surely that sounds awesome!). Nope. We learned that our readers are turned on by far more interesting (and occasionally more mundane) things. Take me for example. It is absolutely such a turn on when my husband does things around the house. When I feel like he is “taking care of business” like a “man of the house,” nothing is hotter to me. Spanked Husbands Question: Has anyone else been spanked on their wedding night? I was spanked for the first time by my bigger stronger wife on our wedding night. ZnLcoP What's Happening i am new to this, I stumbled upon this I've found It positively helpful and it has helped me out loads. I hope to contribute & aid other users like its helped me. Good job.